Conquering Infertility

In vitro process continues to provide hope for prospective parents

Infertility Awareness tips
By: SALLY FRIEDMAN

"Mother
‘Infertility
is a state, not a disease, that can be changed and, in so many cases, solved.’

— Dr. George S. Taliadouros,


Delaware Valley Institute of Fertility and Genetics

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   THE
dream is for a child, an affirmation of life. And for so many, that dream is realized.

   But there are also those who struggle to reach that yearned-for goal. Estimates are that at least 15 percent of all couples experience infertility at some point, with infertility defined as the inability to become pregnant from unprotected intercourse for a year or more. And for those couples, what commonly begins is a ride on an emotional roller coaster.

   "We like to think of the condition as ‘sub-fertile,’ " suggested Dr. George S. Taliadouros, founder of the Delaware Valley Institute of Fertility and Genetics, which has offices throughout the region, including in Lawrenceville and Bordentown.

   "We like to emphasize that what we think of as infertility is a state, not a disease, that it can be changed and, in so many cases solved," said Dr. Taliadouros.

   The question most couples anguish over when they cannot conceive and sustain a pregnancy is "why?" The answers are complex.

   "Part of the problem even appears to be environmental," said the Institute founder. "There are lots of substances in the environment that may cause the problem, but for now, our knowledge is limited."

   Also implicated in some cases are family history, ovulatory dysfunction, fallopian tube blockage, and the age of the female, with fertility decreasing after the age of 35, and more precipitously after 40.

   "In some ways, this is a societal problem," suggested Dr. Kimberly Beth Gleason, director of DVIF&G’s Reproductive Laboratories, noting that for some women, the decision to advance a career may lead to fertility problems.

   It is also now understood that about 50 percent of fertility problems involve the male partner. A prior groin injury, certain medications, and even smoking may contribute to the problem. Another common male problem that affects fertility is a condition in which varicose veins around the testicles make conception difficult. Happily, the condition is easily corrected through a minor surgical procedure.

   Treatments for infertility vary, with promising breakthroughs steadily improving the odds for sub-fertile couples, according to Dr. Taliadouros. Medications that help regulate ovulation are useful, along with other pharmaceutical interventions. Most dramatic of all is In Vitro Fertilization (IVF), now two decades old, and an approach that continues to make babies a reality for countless couples.

   The process itself is complex. In basic outline, it involves harvesting the woman’s eggs and fertilizing them in a laboratory with her partner’s sperm. The embryos are then implanted in the woman’s uterus where the hoped-for result is a viable pregnancy.

   The success rate is extremely promising, according to Dr. Gleason — so successful that about 35 percent of those who undergo IVF at the Institute end up with a multiple birth. New technologies and advances in culture systems are destined to cut down on that incidence, suggests Dr. Gleason.

   The emotional aspects of facing fertility issues are not ignored at DVIF&G. Dr. Geoffrey D. Nusbaum, director of the Institute’s Medical Psychotherapy and Biomedical Ethics Service, is an integral part of the process. Dr. Nusbaum sums up what couples face:

   "They not only have to mourn the loss of not being able to conceive right away," suggests Dr. Nusbaum. "These often bright, achieving people were taught that if they put their minds to it, they could do anything. Now they feel powerless and frustrated."

   Dr. Nusbaum’s general advice to couples:

   • Express your feelings;

   • Don’t shut out your partner;

   • Educate your family and friends so that they’re not insensitive;

   • Make a commitment to stop blaming yourself or your spouse.



For more information about the Delaware Valley Institute of Fertility & Genetics, call (609) 895-0088
or visit its Web site at www.startfertility.com.

Infertility
Awareness



   SINCE the early 1990s, following the initiative of Resolve Inc.,
infertility support organizations and allied medical, pharmaceutical and counseling professionals around the
world have chosen a time during the month of October in which to focus on enlightening the general public and
the media about infertility.

   Not every infertility-touched family or professional or infertility-related support group
has the time, the means, the budget, or the energy to mount a full campaign. Not to worry! Individuals can
make an impact, too. The American Infertility Association offers the following tips to help make a difference
in conquering infertility.

   • Take your parents or your siblings or a good friend with you to an infertility
conference.

   • Help your extended family learn what they need to know about infertility and
its alternatives.

   • Be an infertility advocate for the day: write a letter concerning health care,
contact your company’s human resources department about infertility medical benefits. One voice can make a
difference.

   • Take a member of your medical office’s staff, your clergyperson, a therapist,
etc. to lunch! Thank them for their help in a time of crisis, but also let them know how they could better
have prepared or supported you. Offer to help them work on a plan for improved services.

   • Offer your home to a family who may be traveling from their home elsewhere for
treatment in your area. It will save them money on their travel expenses.

   • Infertility.about.com
recommends that you think about the relationships around you and how they’ve been impacted by your journey.
Is there anyone whom you think might benefit from a warm, explorative or informative talk about infertility?
Any relationships that may need healing from some of the barriers that infertility and pregnancy loss can create?
Sometimes it helps to talk with someone objective first, like a counselor or clergy, before having those talks
with others; sometimes, all that needs to happen is an open heart and mind.

   • Send a donation to your favorite grassroots infertility activist organization
— perhaps in honor of an especially sensitive professional, friend, or family member.

   • Stand up and be counted! Become a member of one or more of your favorite infertility
advocacy organizations.



Source: The American Infertility Association