Mrs. Ilaria, 80, of East Brunswick, formerly of the Parlin section of Sayreville, died Nov. 7, 2008, at home. Prior to her retirement in 1991, she was employed as a secretary with Greater New York Insurance Co., East Brunswick, where she worked for 25 years. Her husband, Charles F. Ilaria Jr., died in 2005. Surviving are a daughter, Teriann DiLalo, and her husband, Gregory, with whom she lived; two sons, Charles F. Ilaria III, and his wife, Gina, of Belleville and Gerard Ilaria, and his wife, Catherine, of East Brunswick; five sisters, Carmela Picone of Nutley, Beatrice Dessino of Middlesex, Lillian M onterosa of Bridgewater, Rosemary Pisani of Rowland, Pa., and Josephine Petruzzi of Berkeley Heights; two brothers, Al Cino of Millburn and Peter Cino of Berkeley Heights; and four grandchildren. A Mass was offered at St. Bartholomew’s Church, East Brunswick. Cremation was private. Arrangements were under the direction of Brunswick Memorial Home, East Brunswick. Memorial contributions may be made to the Interfaith Network of Care Respite Program, 62 S. Main St., Milltown, NJ 08850.