Dunster a treasure lost to Allentown

  To the editor: 
   Ron Dunster — to a lot of people this name rings of friendship, charity, humanity and humility. To those of you not familiar with him, let us attempt to tell his story.
   Ron was the most giving human being we have ever known — mostly done under the radar and with very little fanfare. Paying it forward and looking after his family, fellow man and community were what drove him to constantly be moving and doing.
   We first met Ron and Myrtle about 25 years ago when they so graciously opened their pool to the children of the summer program held at the school. Our children were some of the lucky ones that enjoyed several summers of swimming when the weather was hot. The Dunsters kept the pool clean and safe — no small feat when numerous children arrived energetically each day.
   We then became fortunate in 1992 to buy the house next door to the Dunsters. You couldn’t ask for better, more caring and sharing neighbors. When we didn’t own a snow blower, Ron plowed us out — he had any tool or ladder if we needed to borrow. He supplied us with a multitude of flower bouquets from his gardens and yard, specifically showering us without favorites. “They are meant to be shared,” he’d say as he smiled and presented a bunch. We were not the only neighbors who were recipients of those bouquets.
   The Dunsters gave and gave. We’re sure we are going to miss several of their passions, as there were so many. To name a few, they were active in, or founders of, The Give Back Foundation, the local Food Bank, the Harvest Fest, Civil War Encampment, Memorial Day Parade, Antique Car Club, Cancer Awareness Drive, The Recreation Committee and the Freedom Fest.
   There would barely be a tree or bush in Heritage Park if it wasn’t for Ron.
   His front yard was welcome to display any sign that announced some project that did good for the community. And who can forget the cheerful and beautiful holiday decorations in December that inspired the rest of us to “turn it up a notch?”
   Ron inspired us, and many others, to “do a little more.” They don’t make men like this anymore. We as parents need to be inspired by his goodness and teach our children the same. Paying it forward, passing along a helping hand, gesture or smile will not only benefit those who receive, but will make us doing the giving, much better human beings.
   People don’t have a heart like Ron Dunster’s anymore. His heart gave out. Maybe it was just too big for all he wanted to still do.
   Rest in Peace our friend and neighbor. You will be missed.
Judi and Brad Barlow
Allentown 